{"id":153,"date":"2022-08-05T10:53:28","date_gmt":"2022-08-05T10:53:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/3place.net.au\/?page_id=153"},"modified":"2022-08-05T13:38:11","modified_gmt":"2022-08-05T13:38:11","slug":"what-we-have-learnt-and-its-importance","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/3place.net.au\/?page_id=153","title":{"rendered":"What we have learnt and its importance"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><u>&nbsp;Emotional safety. One of the most important aspects of connection \/ relationship<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>It is expressing who you are, including your hurts, fears, and dreams. It\u2019s expressing yourself authentically, sharing dissatisfaction, fears, and insecurities, and having a conversation without it blowing up into an argument. It\u2019s sharing without fear of shaming, yelling, or rejection.<\/li><li><strong>Why does emotional safety matter;<\/strong> When we trust, that someone else can see, hear, and understand us, we relax more with them. We open up about who we are and feel connected. Emotional safety is reciprocal. When we are safe for someone else, we deepen our relationship.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>When you feel emotionally safe<\/strong>, you are more likely to be your \u2018best self\u2019 and contribute to your greatest ability. You are free to dream, collaborate, create, share, and express yourself. When we open up and do this in a safe environment, we invite others to do the same.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>How to build emotional Safety<\/strong>; Recognizing what not to do in relationships. We may not be aware of the subtle ways we cause harm with sarcasm, blaming, bulling or shaming others. Instead, traits like respect, kindness, and appreciation foster safety.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>A <strong><u>lack of emotional<\/u><\/strong> safety leads to disconnection. Disconnection is a massive threat to a relationship. When we feel disconnected, we begin to feel lonely and distant,<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Public Choice Theory<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Public Choice presents as a research program dating back to mid 20<sup>th<\/sup> Century. The research looks at the theoretical gap in what was predominantly a Political\/Govt driven economy post WW2. Western democracies allocated between 1\/3 to \u00bd of their total product through Political institutions rather than free Markets. (Published by American Inst for Economic Research, James Buchanan Public Choice Theory)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In essence, the 3<sup>rd<\/sup> level facing our Communities is Local Govt = Councils. The Theory then supports the analysis that the allocation of Time &amp; Funds favors \u2018Majority\u2019 groups, receiving majority outcomes.\u2026 whatever they be; supply of goods and services, venues, contracts, facilities etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The implication is, that \u2018Minority\u2019 groups in that \u2018space\u2019 will be \u2018discriminated\u2019, one way or another. The ideal goal is therefore to provide \u2018stability across all groups\u2019. Eg everyone is considered and sees proportionate or fair outcomes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Involvement in Forums &amp; Local Government Act Handbook creation appears to uphold that Theory through the comments raised by many \u2018Community\u2019 Groups. Local Government are becoming aware of voices from their Communities, but Community Engagement at \u2018our level\u2019 is still working through Policy development and acceptance suggesting \u2018Health and Wellbeing Policies\u2019 are still on the horizon.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The Theory upholds the notion that the small Communities and Groups within any Local Government are likely still \u2018discriminated\u2019 against. Clubs, Associations and Programs get time, effort, and funds (Incorporated Bodies)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">The Challenge<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One hypothesis under consideration \u2013 That \u2018Our\u2019 Communities are effectively a Major \u2018casual unstructured\u2019 group of multi-language, nationality, age, health, socio economic \u2026\u2026 a complex yet socially simple group of all Residents who \u2018Demographically\u2019 tick all the boxes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yet we have structured behaviors and consistent needs and fundamentally represent the heart of a 20 minute neighborhood. (all requirements for Transport, Shopping, Recreation, Exercise, Social Interaction etc. All within that 20 min radius.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;The challenge, therefore, is how to structure &amp; engage our group (Communities) such that we can present as that Majority Community structure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The tasks considered to achieve this are; to get user NUMBERS, factual data, Quantify, Specify, create evidence-based arguments \u2026.. Then re-present that to Local Government as the basis of needs for considering \u2018us\u2019 in broad-based Health and Welfare programs for the Future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Whilst our online Community &amp; Casual Users outnumber the Sports Clubs many many times over, yet we are not considered or treated formerly as \u201cStakeholders\u201d as we are not \u2018Incorporated\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Irrespective of our Rates, importance to the broader Community, users of resources, creation of wealth and social needs. Local Government has NO operational \/ statistical data on Casual \/ Dog walkers, Visitors, School Programs, Environmental needs, or the Mental Health benefits of developing Public Areas. These areas represent a common meeting point for the broader Community and LoG should be creating tools and processes to help them and to engage with those Groups. We experience the same challenges, engaging with the diverse group of &#8216;ourselves&#8217;, to facilitate sharing information on a timely and relevant basis. Eg Notice boards, QR Signs and links related to \u2018our\u2019 needs.. 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